Questions to Ask Yourself: Are You Stressed?
- Do you move, walk, and eat rapidly?
- Are you frequently impatient with the pace of other people?
- You try to hurry them up when they talk by repeating “Yes, yes, yes," or by trying to finish their sentence for them?
- Do you frequently try to do several things at once? Such as work on something and talk on the phone, eat lunch and write a letter?
- Do you often feel guilty about doing nothing for a period of time?
- Do you take little time and pleasure in observing your surroundings (the weather, a sunset, people)?
- Do you frequently feel pressed for time, and feel others prevent you from meeting self-imposed deadlines?
- Do you often adopt physical gestures which suggest that you are at war with yourself (gritting your teeth, clenching your fists, pacing the floor)?
- Do you believe your success is largely a result of your ability to do things faster than other people?
- Do you feel you have to prove yourself a successful person?
- Do you lack a regular daily exercise program that you follow?
- Do you have times when you feel you1re in a pressure cooker, things build up inside?
- Do you frequently have times when little things get to you, when you feel especially irritable?
- Have you experienced recent change in habits, such as:
- difficulty in falling asleep
- loss of appetite
- increase in smoking or drinking
- feeling unusually fatigued
- gains in weight
- Do you frequently find yourself thinking excessively about an upcoming appointment or event, anticipation of possible problems?
- Do you often expect the worst to happen in hopes you'll be wrong?
- Do you frequently get so absorbed in thoughts, you can't remember what you ate or what your wife/husband said to you?
- Do you frequently feel guilty about the amount of time you spend with your family?
- Are you frequently concerned about your health or that of a family member?
- Are you often concerned about the stability and growth of your marriage?
- Do you frequently experience headaches, stomachaches, breathing fast, fluttering heart?
Reference:
1. Richard M. Suenn, PhD
2. Ray Rosenman, TypeA Behavior and Your Heart